“Not destroyed but my 75 year old grandmother just found out her dad was not her real dad. Nope.”ĩ. “ Family wasn’t destroyed but my dad found out he has a 43 year old daughter he never knew about that was conceived when he was 16, (I was his oldest, I’m 23) and my mom found out her grandad had an illegitimate child there was no record of. He joked around so much that when he told our class, I thought he was joking. “Can’t speak for myself but one of my old high school teachers took an Ancestry DNA test and found out his dad wasn’t actually his biological father.
The funny thing is my brothers birth father the man who I thought I was has been the most amazing man in all of this and is the only person in this invited to my wedding and i cant wait to have him there.”Įveryone was pretty pissed when we found out my dad was my birth dad.”Ĩ. Through all this stress I dont really know if I want my birth father in my life. My birth mother has been texting and calling her constantly telling her how it’s all my fault and telling her I’m an awful person and to not let my birth father talk to me. Turns out they were friends from high school. Everyone stopped talking to her and was pissed.Įxcept for my actual birth fathers wife. It came out she knew all along I wasnt the birth fathers kid.
She called me every name in the book saying i was ruining everyone’s lives and how it was my fault this happened. My birth mother went ballistic for me finding out. Which there is still some tension between us for. My brother and I were only half siblings.
Originally I thought it was her brother but it wast it was my birth fathers brother. Then the 23 and me test came back that I took right before finding her came back. We made plans to see shows and I was finally going to meet her mother my grandmother and learn about the heritage I never had. The man who I thought was my birth father was amazing and my birth mother and I liked so many of the same things. We had a great time and we all clicked immediately.